hi how are you, I am a boy 30 years old and I am a virgin, I when I did not have an erection during intercourse my penis was 1inch (3cm). When I was 20 years old, I went out with a girlfriend, but I had no interest in having a relationship, she was 19 years old because I was afraid of hurting her after 6 months, she left and separated from me. I also did the same with my second girlfrien and she left me, I later decided to have sex with other girls but I did not have an erection during intercourse even though I used testosterone I still do not have an erection my penis is 3.5 inch (9cm) when I masturbate . I have buttocks like women's t-shirts that I wear go down my buttocks I also recently started to be jealous of women who have big buttocks whether I am a male or transgender or something else do you have any answer or advice?